You can get her back with love
If you try to win back your ex girlfriend without having a grand plan or undergoing some thorough thinking, you are most likely doomed to fail in your endeavour. After a devastating breakup, both you and your ex are feeling broken and damaged inside. That’s why you have to be careful with what you do, unless you really want to mess things up further.
For instance, chasing after your ex will only make her find you unattractive. Being too available, desperate, and tenacious will only put her off. If you really want to drive her crazy and win her heart back, try doing the opposite of all the methods mentioned above. Don’t call her as she would be expecting you to do that. Don’t stalk, or text, or send her presents. Just disappear from her life for a while. Chances are she will wonder why you haven’t at least tried to pursue her. If she still loves you, she will not be able to stand not hearing from you or not having you around for a long period of time.
After pulling off all these mysteriousness, try to approach your ex in a friendly manner. You can even try to make her jealous during this process by casually telling her that you are seeing someone else (even if you’re not). Try to describe the girl you are currently “dating” and you might just sense a bit of pang from your ex as she gives you her opinion about it.
Since you and your ex are friends again and you have already received some positive feedback from her, you can eventually make it clear to her that you have actually been trying to figure out how to get her back because are still interested in starting a new relationship with her.
